“The question is, can you figure out your engine, your vehicle, so you can start doing better in your own environment?” – Rich Diviney
What are the key attributes for success in even the toughest situation? In this episode, Brian interviews retired Navy SEAL Commander Rich Diviney about his book, “The Attributes.” Rich explains how, through close observation of the most elite optimal performers, he learned to identify the hidden drivers of performance that explain how someone will succeed, both as an individual and as part of a team. Topics discussed include: the unique SEAL mindset, the difference between skills and attributes and the defining qualities of real leadership.
YOU WILL LEARN:
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
“The Shawshank Redemption” movie
“Key to Yourself,” by Venice Bloodworth
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“Courage cannot exist without fear.” – Rich Diviney
“There's a distinct difference between being in charge and being a leader. Being in charge is a noun, and being a leader is a verb.” – Rich Diviney
“One of the most important jobs of leadership is oftentimes not to be in the front at all, it’s to push your people up front.” – Rich Diviney
“Humility is a difficult thing. Because as soon as you think you have it, you've lost it.” – Rich Diviney
“Laughter is a binding element that hacks into courage and allows us to keep going.” – Rich Diviney
“Be resolute in the outcome, but don't dictate the pathway. You have to be adaptable - the pathway is going to change.” – Rich Diviney
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“I’ve never met an Irishman who didn’t hope for more.” – Brian Buffini
Ireland might be a small country, but it’s one of the most influential in the world. In this episode, recorded as a special Facebook Live on St. Patrick’s Day, Brian shares three reasons why so many Irish people achieve phenomenal success worldwide and explains how these unique principles can help you win, no matter where you’re from. This episode also features a bonus Q&A session in which Brian discusses topics including how to deal with a hot market, how to get clients to refer you and why it’s important to keep connecting with customers who move out of state.
YOU WILL LEARN:
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
EPIC, The Irish Emigration Museum
“The Commitments” movie
“The Shawshank Redemption” movie
Episode 201, This Too Shall Pass – an Interview with Dr. Lawrence Yun
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” – Oscar Wilde
“You’ve got to have a backbone. You’ve got to have some toughness. If you want to succeed in life, you’ve got to be tough enough to do it.” – Brian Buffini
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” – Samuel Beckett
“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucius
“We need a bit of laughter. We need a bit of life.” – Brian Buffini
“Laughter is the best medicine. And the best medicine is in short supply in today’s world.” – Brian Buffini
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“If you have the right heart and the right motives, and you go about this the right way, you will be a person of influence. You will become a master of influence.” – Brian Buffini
The art of persuasion can be a powerful force for good, but it must be done for the right reasons and in the right way. In this episode, inspired by Robert Cialdini’s classic bestseller “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” Brian shares three more principles of influence and persuasion. Topics discussed include: why it’s important to slow down and break bread with people, why actions speak louder than words and why you must lead yourself before you can lead others.
YOU WILL LEARN:
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
“Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” by Robert Cialdini
Episode 267, The Power of WHO – an Interview with Bob Beaudine
Episode 227, The Leader’s Edge
“Love is the Killer App,” by Tim Sanders
“Emotional Intelligence 2.0,” by Travis Bradberry
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“To positively influence people, you have to really make a deep impression on how you make them feel.” – Brian Buffini
“We want to do business with people we like.” – Brian Buffini
“It's amazing how interesting people find you when you're interested in them.” – Brian Buffini
“I find that if I'm kind to myself and gracious to myself, I can be kind and gracious to others.” – Brian Buffini
“The power of doing the right things, in the right way, with the right intent - and maintaining that standard for yourself - is a deposit in your own mind and your own heart that will be the making of you.” – Brian Buffini
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“Great persuasion is getting people to do what they need to do.”– Brian Buffini
When done for the right reasons and in the right way, the art of persuasion is very powerful. In this episode, inspired by Robert Cialdini’s classic bestseller “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” Brian shares the first three of six principles of influence and persuasion. He explains how, when they coincide with the right intent, motivation and desire to help, these techniques can be used for the common good and to serve others.
YOU WILL LEARN:
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
“Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” by Robert Cialdini
Episode 267, The Power of WHO – an Interview with Bob Beaudine
“The Power of WHO,” by Bob Beaudine
Episode 231, The Law of the Harvest
National Association of REALTORS®
Episode 199, No Plan B
Episode 164, The Best Interview of My Life with Neil Armstrong
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“If you give and give and give, eventually you will be seen, you will be acknowledged and you will reap the harvest.” – Brian Buffini
“Help your friends in every way possible.” – Bob Beaudine
“You will find your tribe, you will find the right people, you will find the right reward. But don't give up.”– Brian Buffini
“If you want to have influence you’ve got to be committed, have no plan B and be all in.” – Brian Buffini
“If they can do it, I can do it.” – Brian Buffini
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“The power of WHO starts first with a premise that friends and business aren't taboo.” – Bob Beaudine
We all have key relationships in our lives that can help us in ways we never imagined. In this episode, Brian interviews Bob Beaudine, the top sports and entertainment executive recruiter in the United States. Bob explains why your friends are your conduits and resources to success, why you must humble yourself enough to ask for help and how you can deal with life’s speedbumps and still achieve your dreams.
YOU WILL LEARN:
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
“The Power of WHO,” by Bob Beaudine
“2 Chairs,” by Bob Beaudine
“Arnie,” Golf Channel documentary
“It's a Wonderful Life,” movie
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:
“If you want your dreams to come true, you have to help other people get their dream.” – Bob Beaudine
“You can never get what you can't see.” – Bob Beaudine
“People don't care how interesting you are, they care how interested you are.” – Bob Beaudine
“Everyone comes to a realization that we're all a cup short of greatness … you need other people.” – Bob Beaudine
“Friends are different than acquaintances. Friends help you now; acquaintances wish you well.” – Bob Beaudine
“You should go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.” – Bob Beaudine
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